You experience the world through your definition. 

As in, we all will have a different experience of the journey of life, yes, through our openness… but also because we place our definition into others. 

If someone has the centres you have defined, open. They are going to amplify those elements of you back to you. 

I have the 43-23. Throat and mind defined. I am constantly witnessing people talk to me about things they know or don’t know. People feeling a pressure to have an opinion and express it around me. 

It’s interesting to watch. It’s especially interesting to watch people with these centres open around me and me defining them. And, as a projector, I can see myself in their amplification of my definition. 

But it got me thinking that even though we are experiencing our openness and learning about that… we are always learning about ourselves through the auric communication with others. Our experience of the world and people is shaped by our definition also. 

Your experience of this world will be different than mine. I always hear thoughts. People wanting to express themselves. But if two open mind/throats came together, they likely wouldn’t talk about that topic. 

Watch your definition in others, and see how it coaxes your definition out of you. 

If you are in the right place, you will notice the right things coaxing your uniqueness out. Because they can see you. They can feel what you are putting into them. 

This is the beauty. 

People are the lessons. People reflecting back who you are in order for you to feel more able to be you. So you can put into the world what you need to because you feel seen and safe. 

If that energy coding exchange wasn’t there… you’d be walking around not knowing who you are. Or not being asked the right questions. 

We focus so heavily on what we are not… and rightly so. But remember to spot your uniqueness in others. Notice the pattern. Notice the consistent things you see in others.

Also notice their struggle. Notice their struggle to BE your definition. This is the thing. You cannot BE a 43-23. You can experience the 43-23. And by experiencing it, you are learning about it. And by experiencing it, you are in turn coaxing the unique view out of that 43-23 holder that is defining you. 

Speak what you feel around someone. Bounce off of them. Let them coax you out.

Don’t over think it. It comes naturally.

But this is why you shouldn’t BECOME what you experience. You are simply there as a mirror for the other. Which is the learning ground of the system. 

Thing is… when you are with someone else, you are so impacted by their definition that you loose track of your own. So you have two people talking who are lost in each other. Not lost in a good way… necessarily. But lost in trying to become their experience of the other. Eg… having a ego defined parent and trying to become full of will power. No. Use that definition to learn about the ego. Not become it. Its NS for them to pressure you into becoming that and for you to try and become it. But learn it. And coax the uniqueness out of them.