Relationships: A Container For The Not Self

Relationships are a container for the Not Self to shine. We may have felt we have done the work on our own and then… boom! Your new relationship brings up something new. If you don’t deal with your Mind patterns this time, you’ll have to deal with them next time. Our Mind patterns build up in our Not Self. These don’t disappear.

Relationships are containers. Containers for growth. While all we may be after is love… that’s never what a relationship solely offers us on our journey. 

We can get to a point on or HD journey (or any other spiritual journey) where you feel like you’ve dealt with your demons. That you’ve completed or done enough/your fair share of inner work. 

Yet growth is never done. For we are the universe experiencing itself. We are expanding each day just as the universe does. 

Connections are part of that expansion - whether romantic, friendship, business or other. 

So lean in, expand! Feel uncomfortable. Be prepared to deal with what comes out of it. 

Everyone is a teacher on our path. Either there for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. 

The inner growth is never done. The Not Self themes always cycle around. The Not Self shining out isn’t necessarily a bad thing. In fact, drawing your full conscious awareness to if can propel your growth and inner understanding. 

Sometimes we think the answer is leaving the container which is making us uncomfortable. However, if it is something you need to work on, it will show up in future relationship containers. Check in with yourself ✨

It’s always beneficial to do a Not Self “check”. I do this through Living Your Design Workshops. They are a great way to check in with yourself, expand your consciousness, start/continue your deconditioning process.